Working this out

Life is a sequence of events and decisions. Everyone has a series of defining choices that we have some modicum of control over. We just dont always have control over the event it is placed in, but in some sense the choices we make early on in these events (that at the time we have very little control over) all start to add up so that the situations we find ourselves in later on in life are linked to the choices we made earlier. 

And these are things I did and didn't post

Today I thought some thoughts

Sometimes I don't know how to process memories. They come up and blossom into full experiences. I remember Marc and I sitting in this quiet bar/restaurant place, random as random could be I our life experiences, sitting there in Normandy, someplace off the side of the road and who knows why we stopped yet we did. And we order mussles and the waiter asks in some way that we understand if we'd like them in wine or cream, we somehow ask in a way he understands if he likes them better in wine or cream and he emphatically says creme. So cream it is and it is... Delicious. One of the best meals ever. We ate those mussels like they were going out of style. And from there on out we ordered them that way. We did it and it happened and it was great and it was just what it was. That was nearly three years ago. And I still love him like a new boy in my life.